I assume the bullying you feel is from Greenman. Sometimes two people simply don't like each other, and not much can be done about it. He has an opinion about you, unshakable, he can't get past. Doesn't want to get past enough to push a reset button, and maybe eat some crow. You have the same... pride.
Idea of a DNR here on Blue is something Sia resists, and I understand that. Imo Greenman has been and is unduly harsh with and about you, and you reciprocate.
Perhaps a special circumstances DNR is a solution? Rather than implement a general DNR concept, this one would specifically apply to you and Greenman as a unique and special circumstance, without becoming a general board practice. Terms of the special DNR would apply the same way; do not talk to or about each other.
That will require some self discipline on both your parts.
I don't know about inclusion of Back Alley in a special DNR, because that forum is a vent.
By all means lets keep communication open. You have our emails if you would prefer discussion be made and kept privately.
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