Like, regardless of how much time and energy you've put into defining exactly what you want out of music, it's just not applicable to anything else. so what's the point of banging your head against a brick wall when people like something that you do not? (please do not respond to this with an essay)
Say that I don't like a certain kind of sweet. I can delve into the nutritional content and ingredients of the sweet in question and then spend lots of time determining what makes the treats that I like good. I can then communicate what I consider to be my ideal make-up of good junkfood... but what if I encounter someone who does not agree? Maybe they like the sweet that I don't like... maybe they don't like the aspects of sweets that I am always looking for. Should I write a thesis on our differences in order to try and persuade them? or will the result of all this work be f*ckall, other than articulating my own preferences? do you see what I'm getting at here? for all your extrapolating, it literally has nothing to do with anything. it's not to say your reasoning is not thought out; it's totally scientific, but that's still meaningless in the face of difference of opinion. I guess, if you enjoy doing this, knock yourself out... as long as you demonstrate some level of awareness that it makes no difference.
in the end, "I don't like this because X, Y and Z" is no different than "I just don't like this" when it comes down to it. just because you've done 100x research into musical form, structure and what not compared to everyone else doesn't make you any more or less correct in any way, shape or form. sure, you'll have much more professional reasoning for why or why not you like or don't like something... but it will still fall flat in the face of others liking or not liking something that's not in line with your own tastes. again, we're talking about "taste" here... it's just not something that you can change or understand in others, unless you spend a ton of time with them and force them to delve into what you like with as much time/energy as you've given it yourself. so yeah... you could lock me in a cell with you for a year and force me to understand and listen and listen and listen to Beethoven until I hate most pop music and can't enjoy anything else... but fortunately that's not going to happen.
I mean, you're an intelligent person, clearly. you must know this. and you obviously have a good humor about yourself and your interests and methods. but you can't be so willfully obtuse when other people think differently than you. there's nothing to work out or break down or delve into... it just is. sorry for being a jerk once again...