>> Same. Seems pretty common w/ folks our age. And the older you get, the more "the good ones" are snatched up, just leaving the psychos.
Knowing this terrifies me TBH. As far as I can tell I'm widely liked by everyone I meet, so in a lot of ways I don't think I'd have a ton of trouble finding someone who liked me enough to date me if I were to actually try. But I've never tried, and now I'm reaching a point in life where I'm considering maybe actually trying for that. but it seems like if I even want to try modern dating I'd have to start using Tinder and crap like that, which I find absolutely soul-sucking.
I need to meet more people. This is why my band needs to be successful. Playing shows is BY FAR the best way I've ever found to meet interesting people. But we don't play live quite enough to really use that fact to its full potential.