And yes it does kinda describe women through these apps, at times at least. You randomly match with people that maybe go by your looks instead of your profile and they don't say much or anything.
"Solid advice but my main concern is that I have other things I need to focus on/resolve"
Totally understand that man. I think it's great that you are thinking this through ahead of time first. Maybe you should focus on yourself a little bit first. The nervous breakdown sounds nuts. I hope you are getting better with things.