If using logic and reason in response to your logical fallacies makes me an “instigator of abuse”, that is your problem, not mine.

Nothing is preventing you from attempting to respond with logic and reason. Instead you are either incapable of civil discourse or bereft of an intelligent response, choose to lash out with childish name-calling, misogyny, and other forms of verbal abuse.

Ad hominem attacks are simply a crude form of logical fallacy. They offer nothing to civil discourse except to prove you can’t defend your position.