Or a man, if some fool wants to play semantics.
I never cheated on my wife, and even though we're divorced for 16 years now, I STILL have not cheated on her.

I do not understand men and women who do this.

I had ample opportunity to cheat. Even flaunted in my face, and I turned it down and walked away. Ruined a few friendships by walking away from the hopeful woman. The temptation of sex was something the offering woman wanted, not for a relationship, or love, but for some kind of control and power. They were administrative bosses who wanted me under their thumb. I was powerfully built from all that climbing and skiing.

I really don't get that lack of integrity by men or women who do it and am especially tired of it showing up in politics and leadership.

Platner should never have pursued leadership. He should have said "no" before it ever launched. Didn't he know better?

I finally ran into a superintendent who flat out lied his ass off to kill my career, because I was a threat to his lust for power. HE was a former politician! He knew how to lie and destroy a career. He knew next to nothing about how education works, and he moves from place to place a step or two ahead of a past that never catches up. Sounds like trump, don't it?

Trump wins because he can outlie any opponent.