Posted by Christopher Blackwell on October 25, 2025, 12:04 pm
Unsolved Mysteries & Natural Wonder Facts · Follow · She broke the law by teaching slaves to read by firelight, then discovered her brother had three Black sons—and paid for them to go to Harvard and Princeton.
Sarah Moore Grimké was born in 1792 into everything the American South could offer a white woman: wealth, status, comfort. Her Charleston family owned enslaved people whose labor provided that luxury.She should have accepted it. She was expected to accept it.
She couldn't. From childhood, Sarah's conscience rebelled against everything around her. She watched the violence of slavery with horror. She felt the cage of gender restrictions—she wanted to become a lawyer but was told girls couldn't. The injustice burned in her.So she committed a crime.
Picture this: A young woman lying flat on her stomach by the fireplace. The door locked. The keyhole covered. In the dim light, a spelling book between her and her waiting maid—an enslaved woman assigned to serve her.They were learning to read together.In South Carolina, teaching an enslaved person to read was illegal—punishable by fine or imprisonment.
Sarah later described feeling "almost malicious satisfaction" in defying that law. She understood what slaveholders feared: that literacy was a path to freedom.That image reveals everything about her: the courage to break unjust laws, the understanding that knowledge is power, the willingness to risk everything for what's right.
But teaching in secret wasn't enough. Living in a slaveholding household, surrounded by violence she couldn't stop, was unbearable. In her twenties, Sarah made an extraordinary decision: she walked away from everything.She wrote about "deserting the home of my fathers to escape the sound of the lash and the shriek of tortured victims."Think about that. She left wealth, family, status—everything she'd ever known—not for adventure, but for peace of mind.
Because she couldn't breathe in a house built on human suffering.Sarah settled in Philadelphia with the Quakers in 1821. She found her voice. And she became a force.
But she didn't leave her family behind emotionally. She returned to Charleston on a mission: to bring her younger sister Angelina north, to save her from the moral corruption of the slave system.
Together, the Grimké sisters became an unstoppable force for abolition. They were the first women to address "promiscuous audiences"—men and women together—breaking another social taboo. They packed halls. They converted thousands. They faced violence and hatred. And they kept speaking.
Sarah's greatest insight was connecting struggles that others saw as separate: the fight against slavery and the fight for women's rights were the same fight.In her 1838 "Letters on the Equality of the Sexes," she didn't just argue for women's rights—she dismantled the entire system that denied them. And she made a connection others wouldn't: she wrote about how enslaved women's "virtue is wholly at the mercy of irresponsible tyrants."
She understood that a system built on owning human bodies—where enslaved women were routinely raped by white men—could never respect any woman's rights, Black or white. Her intersectional analysis was revolutionary for 1838.
Her words influenced Lucy Stone, Elizabeth Cady Stanton, and an entire generation of suffragists.But Sarah's story has another chapter that shows who she really was.
In 1868, sixteen years after her brother Henry died, Sarah discovered a family secret: Henry had fathered three sons with an enslaved woman named Nancy Weston.Sarah was 76 years old. She could have hidden the truth, denied the connection, protected the family reputation.Instead, she immediately embraced Archibald, Francis, and John Grimké as her nephews. She acknowledged them publicly as family. And she used what money she had to fund their educations.
This was 1868—during Reconstruction, when acknowledging Black family members could bring social ostracism. Sarah didn't care.
Archibald went to Harvard Law School, becoming one of its first Black graduates. He became a prominent lawyer, journalist, diplomat, and NAACP vice president. His daughter, Angelina Weld Grimké, became a renowned poet and playwright.
Francis attended Princeton Theological Seminary. He became one of the most influential Black Presbyterian ministers of his era and a fierce civil rights advocate
.Sarah's choice—to love openly, to support education, to treat family as family regardless of race—gave these men opportunities that changed their lives and American history.
When Sarah Moore Grimké died in 1873, she left behind:
A legacy of breaking laws she knew were unjust… Words that connected abolition and women's rights Nephews whose achievements proved what she'd always known: that intellect and worth have nothing to do with race.
A model of moral courage that still resonates She taught enslaved people to read when it was criminal. She walked away from wealth rather than be complicit in suffering. She spoke publicly when women weren't supposed to have voices.
She connected movements that others kept separate. She embraced family when society said she shouldn't. Sarah Grimké proved that privilege is only meaningful when you use it to dismantle the systems that granted it.She was born into everything and chose to fight against it. That's not just history. That's a blueprint.
especially in today’s world. It’s too easy for too many to fall back into bad or self-serving behaviors that are harmful to our country and to the world we live in. Thank you for sharing that.
Much more of a role model than that homely Miss Cox.
Posted by Mondo Fuego™ on October 25, 2025, 7:39 pm, in reply to "A gutsy Southern lady."
That Miss Cox is just a bag of meaningless hot air.
The Southern Lady for standing against the great evil of slavery accepted as normal by most /white people of her time and making sure that her Husband's mixed race sons go a great education that assisted them becoming successful.
Mrs. Cox for her intelligence and continued study of American history study and her continued research.
Give a choice, I prefer an intelligent lady to merely a pretty one. You seem to be frightened by a lady who can think.
I make a point of starting conversation about interesting things with my lady customers, and they enjoy the chance to show the many things that they understand.
That Miss Cox ain't much about "history" any more. She has become a dime store tabloid gossip rag.
Posted by Mondo Fuego™ on October 31, 2025, 4:40 pm, in reply to "Both are models to me."
Every day now it is anti-Trump rants.
I fail to see her "intelligence". She's just regurgitating yesterday's MSNBC tripe.
Mondo It is known as learning from others, every person we see or hear from gives us examples of what works and what does not work in life. The reason that I admire her is that I already know quite a bit about the history we mostly ignore in school, the history of the ordinary people who, despite going most of the work in history, rarely benefited much from alleged good times, and suffered the most of the bad times. The lessons they could teach most of our students is how to survive, regardless of good or bad times and not just giving up when it seems impossible to keep on going at all.
Unfortunately, little of our educations teaches how to survive in real life, learning the theory of living, but not the realty of what is needed to actually survive.
Tribal people gave their children a much better education, more well-rounded knowledge of successful survival by the time they reached their teens. They even survived and adapted to massive changes of their environment in a single generation.
Our kids leave education mostly ignorant about real life, so only then do they start learning about survival, which may take a decade or more.
I am so grateful my parents didn't try to buffer my understanding
