People shouldn’t hate themselves because of their body, and some people really have the deck stacked against them when it comes to genetics, the culture of food in this society, and availability/cost of healthy vs processed foods.

But then it morphed into this idea that losing weight is somehow a betrayal. Fuck that. Being “normal” weight is objectively better than being obese by pretty much any measure. The notion that you can be healthy and obese is basically a lie. Yes, Metabolically Healthy Obesity exists, but it’s exceptionally rare. If someone has access to safe tools that can help them drop excess pounds, they should use them.