I've yet to find a suburb that feels as small town as an actual city. And by small town, I mean
A legitimate small town. Walk to school small town. The typical suburban experience is about as far from small town as you can get. There may be some suburbs that have that feel, but I'm guessing that is because it shares similarities with cities. Walkable, higher density, and accessible.  Previous Message House was cheaper, obviously. We weren't interested in raising kids in the city in any event. Could have won the lottery and we wouldn't have stayed. We're small town kids at heart, i guess. Previous Message I have no idea, but, using Chicago as an example, the cost of daycare being more expensive in the city than in Evanston, Barrington, Glencoe, etc. would surprise me. Previous Message Build more homes, provide childcare, etc. I’m someone who is going to try to raise a kid in one of the most expensive cities in the country, and the math is very tough even though we do pretty well. Previous Message
..to alleviate the real world issues that make doing it so prohibitive.
I call it "The GOP plan".
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 record property tax increases slam chicago homeowners - Ari Gold November 18, 2025, 16:17:15
- Tangential…for all the reports of our imminent demise…my friend just took a 105k price increase…. - haighter November 19, 2025, 9:41:52
- Assume that’s ~10% over ask? Unfortunately (for buyers), that’s not even that bad in SF* - snipes824 November 19, 2025, 12:54:35
- Well now that crime in Chicago is at a decades low... - KingTalkyTiki November 19, 2025, 11:45:14
- ooo - Ari Gold November 19, 2025, 12:48:15
- Oh no! Less children under 5? - KingTalkyTiki November 19, 2025, 12:59:56
- Serious question - Sounder November 19, 2025, 13:40:14
- Good question to ask* - reggiedunlop November 19, 2025, 15:36:23
- Basket of Services - we've kinda abstracted local government out to pick and choose what it spends - ijustkrushalot November 19, 2025, 14:55:35
- schools and space* - gvibes November 19, 2025, 14:43:04
- Forgot: Where the jobs are in some cases* - Chilango November 19, 2025, 14:41:55
- Schools, space, cost, fear, peace and quiet - Chilango November 19, 2025, 14:40:04
- Schools and space* - ISeeDeadHawkeyes November 19, 2025, 14:29:31
- All of the above and more?* - Chicago1995 November 19, 2025, 13:46:27
- We moved to the suburbs when we had mini because I don't think I could have handled - ATL November 19, 2025, 13:42:51
- Seattle famously has more dogs than children* - Sounder November 19, 2025, 13:39:10
- ooo - VIV November 19, 2025, 13:09:39
- This drives me crazy (not referring specifically to you, Ari). But, the graph you showed is a huge - reggiedunlop November 19, 2025, 12:54:33
- I'll leave this to the Chilangos of the world who are doing it successfully... - KingTalkyTiki November 19, 2025, 13:10:05
- Thanks dude. - Chilango November 19, 2025, 14:27:26
- Inconveniences are definitely part of it, but so is cost - snipes824 November 19, 2025, 13:15:00
- Affordability is increasingly completely out of control - Sounder November 19, 2025, 13:42:19
- ...or, and hear me out, just tell people they should have more kids and do little to nothing.. - KingTalkyTiki November 19, 2025, 13:17:49
- Yes, the GOP is awful. But I’d like the places that are run by democrats to deliver more - snipes824 November 19, 2025, 13:23:26
- Is the cost of daycare significantly lower in the suburbs? Honest question. - longsnapper November 19, 2025, 13:55:43
- It was maybe 20% cheaper in the burbs vs Chicago. - Carl Spackler November 19, 2025, 14:40:20
- Been a long time, but I don't think it was noticably different in the burbs for us. - Chicago1995 November 19, 2025, 14:18:53
- I've yet to find a suburb that feels as small town as an actual city. And by small town, I mean - longsnapper November 19, 2025, 14:24:52
- I have no idea. I assume maybe not. I’m speaking purely from a core HCOL city perspective - snipes824 November 19, 2025, 14:02:52
- Yes, this is what I am saying. Also, you shouldn't be limited on how many kids you can have - reggiedunlop November 19, 2025, 13:25:19
- correct. but the public schools / property taxes don't help either.* - Ari Gold November 19, 2025, 12:57:11
- thanks, trump* - VIV November 19, 2025, 8:42:25
- Maybe they should start properly reassessing taxes on new construction and renovated properties - deadpoolOG10 November 19, 2025, 8:41:51
- Gotta make up for flagging revenue due to Trump’s economy somehow - ATL November 18, 2025, 17:28:13
- You should definitely move out of the city. - KingTalkyTiki November 18, 2025, 16:45:06
- Twitchy trigger finger.* - KingTalkyTiki November 18, 2025, 16:45:06
- Suck it, home owners* - timmer November 18, 2025, 16:28:14
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