To you confidence translates as arrogance.

I remember when you attempted to criticize me for having self-esteem. Rube, self-esteem is a positive attribute. Ask your shrink. A prescription for Efexxor is not enough. It's a lifelong recovery. You are not close. Look at the evidence. Your need for "alone time". Your obesity in a family of slenders. Dysfunctional family. Is your poor right-wing son in law and family still living in some truck?

Dude, I think your wires are crossed.

Assess your trailer trash life. I know you don't live in a trailer park. That doesn't really matter.

Take a long break. Look around. Make an appointment.

It will only get worse.