There's a difference between acknowledging and emphasizing
And like Ricky's recent claim that only 3 Babblers were ever actually decent to him, I'd say your statement re: Herman "being the only one who seemed to want to give Denning a break" is pretty hyperbolic. And your response to Herman didn't focus on that, it was just a general statement re: Babblers openly mocking Adrian's mental illness, which IMO is an oversimplification that doesn't seem entirely fair, if that's truly what you were attempting to be.
I'm not saying we should glaze over the "Crazy Ade" stuff because that's obviously what the news of Adrian's death makes most of us think of. But the tone of your and Herman's posts just seems unnecessarily accusatory, whether you intended it that way or not. It's not a big deal- just calling it like I see it and trying to focus the discussion on lessons that we all can learn re: mental health and communication.