Also we do want to get out of Florida. Getting too expensive, the people aren't the best and the heat is just incredibly unbearable lately. It's always bad but this year has been worse than normal (temps close to 100 degrees with lots of sun the past few weeks)..
But yeah I feel for you with this situation. She sounds incredibly irrational and not right to act like she owns the whole building or something. Hopefully reporting the situation to the landlord or whoever helps. I totally get the stress and frustration and acting like you want to retaliate but I hope you can get this straightened out quickly.