" I'm listening to a baseball game right now on the radio -- at a volume where you can only hear it within maybe 2-3ft of the speaker -- and she's pitching a fit."
By "pitching a fit" do you mean she actually asked you to turn it down or that she's just banging on the ceiling? Assume it's the latter from what you've said about her possibly being on the spectrum and not talking to the guy below her. At any rate, it sounds ####ing horrible and it's a shame that it's interfering with you trying to quit smoking but totally understand how it might not seem like the right time/environment (sorry if it seemed like I was giving you a hard time about smoking before- didn't know you were going through this shit). Definitely good that you called management.