This is going to sound weird as #### but the older woman I dated when I was 25 was seventeen years my senior but she was one of the coolest people I had ever met. Saw Bauhaus, the Cramps, New Order back in the day, among many others. Also it started when we were working at Walmart and the prospects were limited, to say the least. Started as a friend, then a "work wife", then we started dating. We'd get high and just do shit and have fun, nothing "mommish" about it, unless you did shots of Old Grand-Dad with yours. You hear that a woman's sexual peak is like 40 and a man's, around 20; if she was taking advantage of me I didn't really care. For some reason I like older and younger women. That doesn't exclude chicks in their 30s at all but they don't grab me the same way.