"1) What would be your perfect day?
Chillin on a Hawaiian beach, writing an exceptionally good song, having some exceptionally good sex"
Sounds good to me!
"3) What is the most exciting thing you ever received through the post?
A rubber vagina. Not a Fleshlight but similar. The excitement diminished when I actually tried using it"
lol.. Never tried fleshlight or any of that type of thing but thought about it. I'm sure its disappointing and now I don't need it because I have a steady gf/almost fiance
"4) What's your idea of a perfect meal?
Either some sushi rolls with eel and/or soft shell crab or a carnitas super burrito from my favorite taqueria in The Mission"
sounds amazing too, I love sushi and a great authentic burrito. Cali must have some of the best mexican food.
"6) What vehicle do you own?
Never owned a vehicle or gotten my driver's license. And as long as I'm in The Bay Area, I don't really see that changing. Have driven a few times but don't have any real desire to be a driver"
I love driving but I don't love the bullshit that comes with having a car. Car payments, insurance, potential accidents, assholes on the road, traffic, car problems/repairs.. etc. I would love to just live in a great walkable/wide public trans city like NYC or SF one day and not have to worry about driving.
"8) Do you have any irrational fears?
Driving, which partly explains my answer to #6. My aunt lost her leg in a car accident when I was really young and driving's ridiculously dangerous so not sure how "irrational" it really is but I occasionally have stress dreams/nightmares about driving. Aside from that, I'd say mice and rats because I can hold them if they're someone's pet but if they're wild and running around my kitchen floor, it freaks me out (mainly because of how quickly they move)"
Oh yeah and car accidents. That rarely ever happened to me in my life but it is still something to worry about. Oh and I am having a rat problem now where I live and it is really annoying beyond belief. They're hard to catch. Been using some dog/human safe rat poison but they keep coming back. luckily theyre just sneaky and in the walls, i dont see them out that much but its still unnerving at times.
"11) Who, or what, do you hate?
At the risk of sounding like a stereotypical SF hippie, I try not to hate anyone regardless of what they've done or what unpleasant characteristics they possess. Maybe I don't come off that way on Babble but I'm generally a very empathetic person, sometimes to my own detriment"
I am the same way. I dont hold grudges or want to hate anyone, but I do get irritated and irrationally angry towards people that annoy me when they're arrogant or just mean spirited. Still I am pretty much the same as you though, very laid back and empathetic.
"17) What is your most annoying habit?
I can admittedly be pretty long-winded (and unlike the whole empathy thing, I'm sure I *do* come off that way on Babble)"
Being long-winded is not bad, but maybe I can be the same way. I'd rather hang with someone who has a lot to say than NOTHING to say. Then again when I go to work and I am tired as hell (or really stoned, like catatonic stoned) or some situation like that it can be a bit overwhelming.
"19) What is your ultimate ambition?
To settle down relationship-wise, live contentedly with as little stress as possible and maybe write some good songs in the process"
Sounds perfect to me too. I NEED to at least work on another album really soon. I am slacking on doing anything musically but yet my mind bothers me almost every day about getting some artistic stuff done or doing something with music. Feel like I waste more time but yet I am making headway with other things in my life (relationships, having a kid and whatnot)
"21) What is your greatest achievement?
Probably quitting drinking/smoking/partying- probably wouldn't still be alive if I hadn't"
Godspeed on that man. I had my own drug problems awhile ago and I hear you there. Glad you got out of that.