It's a bit stressful at times, but me and the gf are as strong as ever together. Of course there's lack of sex and general intimacy lately, mainly because we are working a lot and have little free time, and he needs to constantly be checked especially at night, but I know that will improve once he gets a bit older.
It's a beautiful experience overall, although surreal at times.
No plans for the guitar but I want to write songs as soon as I can, and as soon as I get some more inspiration. Its a Martin electric acoustic, a pretty nice one. Sadly I haven't really played it much lately.