I think you're the only person who cares even a smidgen but the neighbor feud has effectively ended. The apartments banned smoking and that emboldened her; with no other recourse I adopted the "Hiroshima strategy" of punishing her bad behavior with massive disproportionate shows of force. The first time, she did something in the kitchen that was the last straw, so I ran the garbage disposal for an hour and a half and made some coffee and stayed up till 2:30am; in the morning (5 o'clock) I let my cellphone alarm run itself out (ten minutes of an annoying cock crowing). She immediately started behaving herself better. The last time she started shit I played this, loud and late at night (followed by PiL's Flowers of Romance and some late-period Coltrane):
Instant peace and quiet, for the last like month. I don't know if that's because she decided it wasn't worth it or because she started spending more time outside the apartment. The Hiroshima strategy worked, and it only took I think four applications. I'm feeling so very much better mentally.
Still moving though.