GOG, sometimes you have to first determine which it is and then figure out how to deal with it. The conditions keep changing, so you are constantly re adjusting. However, this what life is about, adjusting to change. Your first major change is at birth, none of which you understand, or even like, but you have to start learning and figuring out until you begin to get results that work.

Now with disabilities and health issues, you do your best to maintain your independence. Often people try to help, but you try not to let
them help too much, least you become dependent on their help. So being able to live mostly on my own and having my little shop to run, keeps life interesting. Both I will continue to do as long as I am capable.

AS I have said, I am always a bit amazed to still be here and functioning as well as I have so far.