Just to be clear, I think it's very odd for kids in this age group to be doing anything remotely
competitive. Seems like they are too young to understand anything anyway and should basically be kicking balls around for fun (or picking flowers in the yard, whatever.).  Previous Message And I guess I get it at the age. He's better than everyone on the field and knows it and I'm just a volunteer coach for pre-K ymca ball who has to spend a decent amount of my time simply coaxing some of the more timid players onto the field. I'd love to be able to make progress on teamwork and sportsmanship (he tantrumed a couple times getting subbed off) but I'd settle for ways to structure the game to even it out a little. One thing I've done is be a lot more strict when calling the ball out on him. In addition to being the only coach, the coaches at this age are responsible for officiating the game. We tend to opt to keep the play going when the ball is just over the line for the sake of engagement but I've gone to an immediate whistle with him.
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4YO soccer coaching, how do you nerf a player who's too good it's not fun for anyone else? - RVA September 28, 2026, 11:00:17
- there's nothing you can do. Anything you try is simply bandaging around the fact that - londoner September 29, 2026, 08:24:54
- 5lb (ea) ankle weights* - timmer September 28, 2026, 17:29:35
- tell him you are gonna bang his mom if he doesnt peel back - digs September 28, 2026, 17:18:48
- Cut the hamstring on the back of his leg right at the bottom. He’ll never play soccer again.* - Carl Spackler September 28, 2026, 14:55:59
- 4YOs have no clue what is going on -- just rotate them around - Quiz September 28, 2026, 12:07:45
- Yup * - ATL September 28, 2026, 12:23:21
- Make them the goalie.* - DT September 28, 2026, 11:57:18
- Tell the kid after he scores a goal, he has to pass until somebody else scores a goal. #noshots - JFG September 28, 2026, 11:02:56
- Make him/her use their less dominant foot, require x passes per possession, reward - UofIL6 September 28, 2026, 11:01:41
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