How many of you have kids that are regularly on Roblox?
Posted by tvillini on February 4, 2026, 11:54:57
The story here in the Indy area where a 17 year old ran off with a 39 year old dude she met online in Roblox. They got a "short term rental" at some point, and then she was officially reported missing. Miraculously the dude was able to guide authorities to her remains a few days ago.
Anyway, it's definitely caused a lot of discussion in our friend groups about what they allow their kids to play, and how. We cut Roblox a few months ago because my wife is a Middle School AP, and she sees a lot of kids that get caught up in some really bad stuff through Roblox. I can't tell if it means it's really easy to get around age restrictions or what, but it appears to be a really great breeding ground for creeps.
I built my own Minecraft server that the kids use, and we only admit people we know to the server. I host it here in the house but it's accessible from anywhere. A random user cannot connect (though they try).
Beyond that, I'm totally lost. My boys are on the young side, so most of what we let them do is offline. And they're cool with that. They do like playing with some of their out of town friends in Minecraft.
What have you guys done or allowed? Are the parental controls useless, or are some better than others? Given what we've seen, would that be something that would sway your opinion either way to what your kids can have access to?
We were concerned with the social/chat aspect of Roblox and other games
Tried to limit access or usage for anything that allowed communication with strangers when the kids were younger.
In this specific case, though, it’s not really a Roblox issue. Anyone who is 17 and not Amish is going to have a million options for online interactions with people. At that age, I’m not sure there’s any way to keep someone safe if they’re willing to jump in the back of white vans driven by strange middle aged men.
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The story here in the Indy area where a 17 year old ran off with a 39 year old dude she met online in Roblox. They got a "short term rental" at some point, and then she was officially reported missing. Miraculously the dude was able to guide authorities to her remains a few days ago.
Anyway, it's definitely caused a lot of discussion in our friend groups about what they allow their kids to play, and how. We cut Roblox a few months ago because my wife is a Middle School AP, and she sees a lot of kids that get caught up in some really bad stuff through Roblox. I can't tell if it means it's really easy to get around age restrictions or what, but it appears to be a really great breeding ground for creeps.
I built my own Minecraft server that the kids use, and we only admit people we know to the server. I host it here in the house but it's accessible from anywhere. A random user cannot connect (though they try).
Beyond that, I'm totally lost. My boys are on the young side, so most of what we let them do is offline. And they're cool with that. They do like playing with some of their out of town friends in Minecraft.
What have you guys done or allowed? Are the parental controls useless, or are some better than others? Given what we've seen, would that be something that would sway your opinion either way to what your kids can have access to?
Doesnt happen often, but if he needs to chat with friends that are playing Roblox it can be done via his watch or other tightly controlled communication method.
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The story here in the Indy area where a 17 year old ran off with a 39 year old dude she met online in Roblox. They got a "short term rental" at some point, and then she was officially reported missing. Miraculously the dude was able to guide authorities to her remains a few days ago.
Anyway, it's definitely caused a lot of discussion in our friend groups about what they allow their kids to play, and how. We cut Roblox a few months ago because my wife is a Middle School AP, and she sees a lot of kids that get caught up in some really bad stuff through Roblox. I can't tell if it means it's really easy to get around age restrictions or what, but it appears to be a really great breeding ground for creeps.
I built my own Minecraft server that the kids use, and we only admit people we know to the server. I host it here in the house but it's accessible from anywhere. A random user cannot connect (though they try).
Beyond that, I'm totally lost. My boys are on the young side, so most of what we let them do is offline. And they're cool with that. They do like playing with some of their out of town friends in Minecraft.
What have you guys done or allowed? Are the parental controls useless, or are some better than others? Given what we've seen, would that be something that would sway your opinion either way to what your kids can have access to?
Yes. We do some restrictions on Lil Taz online use, but the older kids are mostly given
Free reign. But we talk frequently to all of them about safety online and about how they can talk to us about anything.
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The story here in the Indy area where a 17 year old ran off with a 39 year old dude she met online in Roblox. They got a "short term rental" at some point, and then she was officially reported missing. Miraculously the dude was able to guide authorities to her remains a few days ago.
Anyway, it's definitely caused a lot of discussion in our friend groups about what they allow their kids to play, and how. We cut Roblox a few months ago because my wife is a Middle School AP, and she sees a lot of kids that get caught up in some really bad stuff through Roblox. I can't tell if it means it's really easy to get around age restrictions or what, but it appears to be a really great breeding ground for creeps.
I built my own Minecraft server that the kids use, and we only admit people we know to the server. I host it here in the house but it's accessible from anywhere. A random user cannot connect (though they try).
Beyond that, I'm totally lost. My boys are on the young side, so most of what we let them do is offline. And they're cool with that. They do like playing with some of their out of town friends in Minecraft.
What have you guys done or allowed? Are the parental controls useless, or are some better than others? Given what we've seen, would that be something that would sway your opinion either way to what your kids can have access to?
Sometimes you just need to yeet a bobcat *
Being an Illini fan is a goddamn curse.*
it's amazing how unmonitored that platform is allowed to be*
The story here in the Indy area where a 17 year old ran off with a 39 year old dude she met online in Roblox. They got a "short term rental" at some point, and then she was officially reported missing. Miraculously the dude was able to guide authorities to her remains a few days ago.
Anyway, it's definitely caused a lot of discussion in our friend groups about what they allow their kids to play, and how. We cut Roblox a few months ago because my wife is a Middle School AP, and she sees a lot of kids that get caught up in some really bad stuff through Roblox. I can't tell if it means it's really easy to get around age restrictions or what, but it appears to be a really great breeding ground for creeps.
I built my own Minecraft server that the kids use, and we only admit people we know to the server. I host it here in the house but it's accessible from anywhere. A random user cannot connect (though they try).
Beyond that, I'm totally lost. My boys are on the young side, so most of what we let them do is offline. And they're cool with that. They do like playing with some of their out of town friends in Minecraft.
What have you guys done or allowed? Are the parental controls useless, or are some better than others? Given what we've seen, would that be something that would sway your opinion either way to what your kids can have access to?
yes to your first answer and probably not enough to your last
i think we've done what we think we need to do but we probably need to look into it more to better understand it all
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The story here in the Indy area where a 17 year old ran off with a 39 year old dude she met online in Roblox. They got a "short term rental" at some point, and then she was officially reported missing. Miraculously the dude was able to guide authorities to her remains a few days ago.
Anyway, it's definitely caused a lot of discussion in our friend groups about what they allow their kids to play, and how. We cut Roblox a few months ago because my wife is a Middle School AP, and she sees a lot of kids that get caught up in some really bad stuff through Roblox. I can't tell if it means it's really easy to get around age restrictions or what, but it appears to be a really great breeding ground for creeps.
I built my own Minecraft server that the kids use, and we only admit people we know to the server. I host it here in the house but it's accessible from anywhere. A random user cannot connect (though they try).
Beyond that, I'm totally lost. My boys are on the young side, so most of what we let them do is offline. And they're cool with that. They do like playing with some of their out of town friends in Minecraft.
What have you guys done or allowed? Are the parental controls useless, or are some better than others? Given what we've seen, would that be something that would sway your opinion either way to what your kids can have access to?