I actually know what needs to happen .I guess I'm just looking for validation that I'm not being a old overbearing dad looking to take the fun out of my kids high school experiences. She's very talented in 3 sports but softball is #1 but the other sports involve her friends. I'm trying to get her to realize that she can't let the fun of the other sports get in the way of her supposedly #1 goal of high level college softball. That's her goal not mine. From private talks she's well on her way to achieving her goal if she continues to excel