I agree totally what you're saying. I'm just finding it hard in this situation to be the bad guy. It also isn't helping that one of the coaches in the other sport she plays is hyping her up on how good she is and can be and saying she could get a scholarship in that sport also. I'm not sure about that and definitely not at a level she's getting looks for like in softball. I'm hoping she comes up with the right decision with a little persuasion before I have to step in