Great players draw coaches; a lot of great players on one field draw a lot of coaches. With a lot of coaches at a lot of games comes great responsibility. Players must consistently outperform their competition, and parents need to behave accordingly. The vast majority of your daughter's talents can be duplicated by a proven player from the portal. A softball career, and college is career, only begins with being chosen as a Bandit; the whole family has to perform to get the most out of the situation.