.. or, and I know this is crazy talk, you find a program that fits your daughter's skill level and you feel will improve her game. This may be shocking, but the point of competing in a sport is to improve and win. So few players receive meaningful college money; maybe you should just play the game. There are a ton of girls out there who don't want to compromise their school selection based on a sport, are academically gifted, and just want to focus on their degree, or want to join a sorority and party like a rock star.

Let a sport be a sport.