Most of you know I now have a stoma for a "stomach" - It's a huge life-changing experience. Most folks in my position name their stoma. Mine's Stella. However, I recently figured out Sella is non-binary. She's Stella when she's good, and Fella when she's erupting all over the place.

For some reason I find this funny. Yet apt.

Right now I am working on finding the right bag for my body. Thought I had it, but lost 5 pounds and it no longer fit right (quite messy). Wish me luck

If anyone has questions about what it's like having a stoma, I'm not shy