She doesn't need more of this! I know it is incredibly and unfairly frustrating not to find and solve the problems for this. It sounds like the pain is splitting or tearing her in half. Nothing in my experience allows me to imagine how bad it must be. I hurt for her!

I am glad she has expert medical attention, and you and other family there to support her. That is a Godsend.

Thank you for being her voice. Please give her my love and best and let her know I pray for her.