My house is rather large and he is kinda deaf but refuses to admit it or wear hearing aides. Plus, I am quite soft spoken. When I yell, practically no one hears me unless they are not very far away abd even then, it's basically noise blown away in the wind. LOL

What I meant was that I could call a nurse or aide for everything, had to for much of my time in tge last 2 months. Even then, I often saved up a group of things I wanted or needed before calling because I detest prima donas who delight in having other people at their beck and call. He has things he's doing too and I MUST get up to walk and move as much as possible or I'll lose tge independence and skills I worked so hard for so I could go home.

Trust me, I have to ask for so much help that im not unwilling to ask for it. Just unwilling to abuse it or lose what I've gained.