"Many miseducated women started shitting on black men, demonizing many of us." If this is how you really feel, read this article.
https://www.loc.gov/collections/civil-rights-history-project/articles-and-essays/women-in-the-civil-rights-movement/
Black women during the feminist movement in the their time were deeply mistreated, overlooked and constantly harassed. Being a women and being black itself was the biggest disadvantage. If that somehow made the black men look bad that sounds like their problem rather than the women.
And let's be real. It's 2023, if you really motivated to do something you're gonna do it. I know people picking themselves up from the bottom up, starting from nothing. Look at Rosalind Brewer. Amanda Gorman, Kamala Harris, Dr. Kizzmekia Corbett, Mae C. Jemison. Look at Sadie Tanner Mossell Alexander. She was the first black woman to receive a Ph.D. in economics. She was born in 1898. You know how hard it is to be a black woman in that time? Yet she stood up from her poverty that so many black people believe they're stuck in for the rest of their lives, and got herself to where she got. You reading this right now? You could change your life if you wanted to. You could be the smartest woman or man on earth. I could be too. You could be the next Elon Musk, honestly. All these successful black people, how are they any different from you? No, they weren't born with more opportunities, they weren't born with more money, they weren't born in better neighborhoods or any better families. They had motivation. That isn't something you're born with. Ain't nobody born with motivation to be something! You gotta work for that. African Americans have been through so many things for so long, but it's 2023 people. People been making changes since the 1900's. We got our rights now, what's stopping us from getting to the top? Ain't nobody but ourselves. Don't blame how we are right now, where we at, on the past, on history. We have opportunities now, it's the future. Don't use how our ancestors were treated as an excuse for not getting up to the top. Use it as motivation. Our ancestors fought for us to get to the damn top, not for us to be where we at right now.