7th grade girls. my wife coaches. I’m the assistant that has to sit quietly in the bench. 50% Archived Message
Posted by LovetheChief on October 24, 2023, 17:59:46, in reply to "This time of year is probably girls junior high? Good luck officiating that game"
Of the refs talk down to her or are dismissive of her. Talk to her way differently than the male coach on the other side. I’d like to hit them. She is the least confrontational person o know. Our star kept making 3s this weekend and so the other girls started diving into our girls legs after the shot. My wife l, who had not said a ficking word the whole game says “why is that not a foul?” This ref exploded at her and told her to sit down and shut her mouth. It was a legit safety thing an she’s had t said a word all game. In a different game this weekend, this clueless fucking ref didn’t hear repeatedly calling time out, and then came over and lectured her on how she called the time out. Would never do that to a man. Previous Message Same goes for junior high boys hoops, freshman hoops…it’s a lot of “should I call this violation/foul?” It’s not “call the violation/foul”
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- AITA - youth soccer edition - ISeeDeadHawkeyes October 24, 2023, 14:40:55
- You are - icasaman October 25, 2023, 9:07:08
- NTA, but refs have a thankless job and youth soccer can’t get enough of them - Chilango October 25, 2023, 8:05:15
- No, the ref is the asshole. * - PapaDels October 24, 2023, 23:24:51
- I umpired a house league fall ball game Saturday and had a parent chase me down - Mrap24 October 24, 2023, 23:02:52
- I’ve become an annoying parent at my kids 5th/6th grade girls games - memyselfandillini October 24, 2023, 16:58:04
- I think you had a point* - memyselfandillini October 24, 2023, 16:49:13
- I think you had a point* - memyselfandillini October 24, 2023, 16:49:08
- My kids had three-person referee crews by 10U - the main ref and 2 linesmen with flags - bbonb October 24, 2023, 15:53:31
- Oak Park* - ISeeDeadHawkeyes October 24, 2023, 15:54:29
- You did nothing wrong. I’m in the middle of basketball season and have concluded that most refs are - LovetheChief October 24, 2023, 15:36:56
- How was Scratch on Lake?* - GMAW October 24, 2023, 15:20:47
- Both - snipes824 October 24, 2023, 15:09:44
- That’s when you continue pointing but with a middle finger* - timmer October 24, 2023, 15:03:31
- Imagine if you were actually saying something! - GMAW October 24, 2023, 15:00:47
- Random youth soccer question. Our team (U11) has 2 new players that are particularly aggressive - CoronaTheirAss October 24, 2023, 14:57:18
- NAH. - HamptonSki October 24, 2023, 14:57:08
- I did stop* - ISeeDeadHawkeyes October 24, 2023, 15:34:20
- If you're not being demonstrative or vocal, the ref is wrong. That being said, these guys - OWWDig October 24, 2023, 14:49:47
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