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Almost always. I just check the box that says “per family’s wishes”.*
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Posted by Philo
on January 19, 2024, 17:14:50, in reply to "
Etiquette-jack
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Do you ever give the family $$$?
I’ve seen it and received it, just really don’t like the practice
Message Thread:
Etiquette question: if a friend or friend of the family (not a relative) passes away
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bbonb
January 19, 2024, 10:14:17
Etiquette-jack
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TarheelIllini
January 19, 2024, 17:12:09
Almost always. I just check the box that says “per family’s wishes”.*
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Philo
January 19, 2024, 17:14:50
I say either, I always go when I can
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TarheelIllini
January 19, 2024, 16:42:14
the person I live with checked with a friend who’s husband said we only need to attend one
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bbonb
January 19, 2024, 16:14:42
One is fine, and of the two, I'd go to the visitation
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bjl63
January 19, 2024, 10:57:37
I don't think you're "obligated" to go to either.*
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MojoJojo
January 19, 2024, 10:51:07
Sometimes it depends on distance traveled...
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EffinIllini
January 19, 2024, 10:44:36
You are never obligated to go to either one if you dont want to.
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HamptonSki
January 19, 2024, 10:26:15
How big is their casket?*
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ATL
January 19, 2024, 10:21:57
Depends on the relationship with the deceased and/or their family. Nothing to do with...
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Tuscy
January 19, 2024, 10:17:29
wrong place*
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EffinIllini
January 19, 2024, 10:43:52
IMO It would be weird to go to the funeral but not the visitation
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Sounder
January 19, 2024, 10:20:18
I like funerals more than wakes.*
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Stu
January 19, 2024, 10:53:43
If you arent in their will, don’t bother.*
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Stu
January 19, 2024, 10:17:28
I had a dream my daughter and law killed me for the money
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Sounder
January 19, 2024, 10:21:32
Need more data
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Sounder
January 19, 2024, 10:16:44
Our kids played youth sports, Indian Guides, and I hired him once to replace our roof shingles
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bbonb
January 19, 2024, 10:26:14
For me that sounds like visitation material, assuming I live within an hour of the locale.
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EffinIllini
January 19, 2024, 10:39:04
about 2 miles*
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bbonb
January 19, 2024, 10:49:50
Visitation is for people to pay their respects. Funeral is for those grieving.*
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Tuscy
January 19, 2024, 10:28:55
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