I'm assuming your kid is not on a ride; if so, this is exactly what you signed up for. Softball programs keep logs, which are reviewed by the administration and the NCAA, restricting the amount of time they can practice. Most decent schools have nutrition programs, which are great for the girls and help them develop as athletes. The programs are judged on academics, and most monitor academic progress and have tutors and study halls available. They also have a staff that monitors medical issues so that no legitimate medical issue will cause her punishment.

Your daughter has a choice to make. Nobody is making her play softball, and now that she knows what it entails, maybe she needs to get out to pursue her extracurriculars instead of being an athlete.

Of course, what will happen is you'll run off to the AD claiming abuse, prompting a time-wasting investigation that will eventually find the coaches within guidelines. You and your family will become even more toxic and try to find other disgruntled families, blah, blah. You're exactly why people give up on coaching.