I'm going to go on a limb and guess the person talking has a daughter who typically starts. But lets be clear, my daughter is just as competent even if she isn't a "starter" or else she wouldn't even had made this talented team. Would love to hear you say this in person to us who have "benched" daughters. The coaches and players arent the problem, it's SOME parents like you. Dont lump all of us together with you not liking the HC because I can see the LOGIC the HC uses to make game decisions. It's a TEAM, if you wanted her to act like she's playing an individual sport, you should have put her in one.