Was listening to a podcast last night that posited a cardinal rule of parenting: if you need something from your kids as much/more as they from you [and there are obviously many behaviors that would fall into this category], then that imbalance will eventually lead to serious trauma, if unchecked.
Seems like DGL's mom would fall under that umbrella, whether we're talking the need for emotional validation or need for a relationship that creates stability for her (rather than him).
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"I find it rather interesting that as soon as my son gets back with the honey hopper is when his playing time shrunk’.. it’s when he stopped caring and being who he is!! Oh well! A big life lesson on what Cum dumpster sluts will do to ones career is next up! -stay tuned"